SD is just like me, I mean, EXACTLY like me. It really scares me and poor BG is just sunk. One day I looked at him and said, "It is really hard living with someone like that!" to which he responded, "Really? Try living with two of them!"
This being a mini-me has gone to a new level now! We use choices for SD to do things. One that we use daily is "Do you want to pick up your toys, or is Mommy going to do it?' The consequence for having me pick them up is that they get taken away. This usually works really well and gets her moving! The problem, is that now, she wants to take away her own toys! Too funny!!